Relationships have the ability to either make you or break you. Relationships, when successful, are amazing. But the wrong relationships can tear you down piece by piece, slowly but surely breaking away at your heart. They drain you, they change you and they can sometimes even destroy you.
Sorry if I’m being a bit dramatic, but I totally understand the feeling. I have been in a couple of “pre-relationships” (the part where you’re not really official and it’s a bit of an awkward cliff-hanger), and all of them were total failures who chipped away at my heart. I know when a relationship isn’t right.
And to be totally honest, you probably know too if your relationship isn’t right. The hardest part is admitting it to yourself but I promise you, it’s 100% worth getting out of it as fast as possible. Don’t waste any more of your time on someone who doesn’t appreciate and love you like they should. Alternatively, don’t waste any more of their time if you don’t think the world of them.
Your other half should love and respect you at all times, not just when they’re in a good mood. They should be fully committed to you and they should want a future with you. If they aren’t doing this, then you honestly deserve better.
Below is a video that really helped me during this time of my life. TD Jakes puts it all into perspective (hopefully better than I have done!)